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Torn...
This me just bumbling out stuff here so...
-------- Im unsure whether or not to stay in my guild (dont look at me like that Kat Five Knives...) or not. There are some people in my guild that I like a lot and im friends with. However, i dont know, I feel sort of...alone... I think that I dont feel like im needed in my guild... My mind is trying to figure out what to do right now. I used to think I was pretty good pirate in this game, now im not so sure. I think im a pretty good fighter, but Stealth and I are totally different. Stealth takes on more of a you-want-him-to-be-there-at-your-party type personality. I am more of a person who retreats to the shadows kind of person. ( Ok, those of you know me in game, Ill do it for you: ) I think its because a former guild I was in (not mentioning a name since I know some people are in it on POF.) I thought was pretty nice until I heard about some nasty things about that guild and I still hear it today. I left the guild shortly after. So im wondering if Stealth has taken this personality to shut out the bad things in this guild by being the person I am and not looking at the guild for what it truly is. So in my old guild I thought the GM was a nice guy until heard the things about his guild and I realized that he wasnt a nice person at all. Just sort of holding a grasp around his guild without the guildmates knowing that they were imprisoned.I have to go now. Let me know what you think of my problem. ~Stealth |
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Mate, I know a lot of things are going on. And trust me when I say I know what you feel like. But I think the biggest mistake I ever made was thinking about leaving my family. I know that you're close friends with the mates that are in the guild your in now, so my advise is raking that unsureness about everything and burn it. Then take some marshmallows and put that blazing fire of unsureness to good use! Yum!
No but really, we're all here for you mate. stick to your gut feeling. You seem like a really cool guy and if i were you, I wouldn't throw out such an amazing guild for past experiences. But hey, that's just me. I'm crossing my fingers for some good vibes to come your way!! Stay cool, ~Hookshot |
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Stealth, I know what you feel and I have had these feelings before. I think you almost need something more to in a guild that makes you a big role. This is part of a reason I stick mostly to my main because I feel like they treat me as equal as others and do not leave out others when they feel unfair. My other pirate has no role in a guild and people really don't notice me. But you can always ask someone how you feel about what you really think is wrong and what they can do to fix it. Follow what your gut tells you to. Don't feel bad if you leave a guild. You made a decison that you think is best to you. Think about it a little bit, what the pros and cons and see what you can do about those cons. If you can't fix them, that is ok! Think about what experiences you had like Hookshot noted. I hope you think this over mate. Good luck
Last edited by titanic95594; 03-20-2011 at 02:51 AM.. |
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Follow your heart mate, that's all you have to do.
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I have left enough guilds to be considered a guild hopper. I'm not, just saying. I try to find the guild that is right for me. Usually, I give the guild I go into at least a month, and I usually like all my guilds that I have been in right now. Drifting from the points, anyways... what Isaiah said, follow your heart.
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Yes I AM gonna look at you that way - yes you ARE needed in the guild Stealth. Quite frankly you are one of our main players - which is why I have been discussing the possibility of you taking on a leadership position within the guild. Personally I would be very upset if you left because I consider you one of my good friends in game and also here at POF.
If there is something specific that is bothering you, please discuss it with me. You are a very valued member - and the guild would not be the same without ya. |
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See, SC! Kat doesn't just throw those kind words around. You worry too much.
Banned for making such a fuzz. |
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I had a sneaking suspiscion TSC would ban me.... IBY right back my friend!
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As Kat said... the guild wouldn't be the same without ya stealth. And your a fine pirate to be with.
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