64 Bit Issues

[Kidma]

Okay, every since the first major update that Disney Pirates online had while I have been playing (which has been about a year now) I crash within 1 to 15 minutes that I log in. I have constantly been on the phone with them. I finally gave up after three months of dealing with this, we got no where and they can't fix nothing it's always "we'll inform the developers". Okay, the last time I spoke with Disney they said the "developers" said they do NOT support 64 bit, only 32 bit and this is why I am crashing. I explained then why did I just start crashing AFTER this major update to fix the Kingshead Glitch, the Ship glitch, to give us these useless Bosses (well I find them useless). The only thing in this update that I found I like is the "Trainer". Anyway, that's beside the point, the point in saying all of that is that I "rarely" crashed, and when I say rarely I mean I may have crashed 5 times from February until that fix. This is my computer specs:
HP M8530F, AMD Phenom 9550 Quad Core Processor 2.20 GHZ, 5.00 GB Memory, 64 bit operating system, Vista Home Premium. I have all the updates to my computer. I have tried moving this file to different locations (from the program files 86 to just program files then just to the C drive no help) and the other day some girl said she has a 64 bit and runs pirates under the 32 bit internet explorer, ummm that I am pretty sure has nothing to do with it. I deleted pirates and redownloaded it FROM the 32 bit internet explorer and that I know has nothing to do with it because I still keep crashing. I have tried it with high graphics, medium, low.. mixed all up, checked boxes unchecked boxes NOTHING works. So, am I just going to wait for them to finally update their systems to 64 bit which I was told from a Disney employee that was not going to happen anytime in the near future. So, basically Disney only cares about 32 bit people. Anyone have any ideas of something I have NOT tried? Again, I did not have this problem till they updated the game with the useless stuff (other than the Trainer.. yeah I'm aggravated that with their update it has caused me to crash all the time and that they don't care).