?? Well it isnt about 'where' you live as much as the time zone your in...
As Mattress suggests if you are looking for others who are playing the same time (possibly in the same time zone) as you and are looking for mates - just pick a busier server (Green or maybe even Red from the List - usually the A Servers are busy must of the time) then start talking and trying to help out.
If you help out a bit with a few others you'll have friends soon enough - and in your play time zone to boot
