This is a HUGE reason why I sail alone. My guild, Pirate Life Thugs, is one of them EXTREMELY polite guilds. They even sometimes ask if they can join a conversation! They ask fer everything. To help loot, level, and are very united, unlike those guilds who ne'er come online.
This guild enhances ones chance to sail together because their very respectful.
There are SO MANY guilds with order, but most are lower level guildmasters ( not that their noobs or less capable ) that can't always have order, making the newer pirates annoying and can only be fixed by being around good people. Anyway, I sail alone.