Thats my point - I ran a large guild before. Umbrella Academy. We had over 200 members and were ranked. The reason I was seeking a 'known' guild is frankly - I dont have to keep joining and leaving until I found what I want! LOL If its a known Guild I've seen or heard of, or have a friend in, I KNOW what to expect.
Believe me - I was a member of Thieves of Honor when it was at its largest. My own, and a few others. I just would like a Guild where the members have manners, and where we can enjoy ourselves with as little drama as possible! LOL I HATE DRAMA and kids talking about ingame boyfriends and girlfriends. Im not here to flirt, and if I wanted an online thing, Id join eHarmony. Its hard to find a good guild unless you've heard about them and know what to expect.
I understand about the exception, but I would think the member representing a guild would be more friendly, or offer a nice statement as to 'come to us later'. But even then, I'd refuse. If they didnt want me before, Im not coming over then.