a friend and I.
 

Are trying to hook up in game, it says we're both on the same server and we met up at a certain point but neither of us can see each other. Any ideas how to fix this?

Try to switch to a different server and meet at a different spot like the repair house on port royal

lol that's exactly what we did. We had to log in and out probably 20x each. We got it to work once, but he disconnected and then we couldn't see each other again.

Incredibly annoying bug. I wonder how many other play on my server that I can't see?

sometimes u can't see people because of a bug.happened to me during privateering.

Double check server and try friending him
Or try to get in same guild